This weekend was graduation! It’s been a long ride trying to complete high school on time. I have been in and out of school since Sophomore year and at times I never thought I would pull through. High school work can be intense, throw in extra-curricular activities and you have a great deal of physical and mental stress. It has been extremely hard at times and my rate of recovery has probably suffered, but I made it and didn’t let Dysautonomia stop me!
Graduation was easily my toughest challenge in a long time. There were easily 580 graduates from my high school and that equates to a two hour ceremony. Not to mention getting to graduation early and taking pictures afterward. It was a long day!
Now, normally I have some tips to make it through an event like graduation, but this ceremony can be a near mission impossible for people with Dysautonomia.
I first walked out of the tunnel at the Segal Center in Richmond VA, a basketball stadium for VCU, and proceeded along the procession to my seat. It was an amazing experience. I felt like Kevin Garnett walking under the stadium lighting and finally making it to graduation. Truly, “Anything is Possible!”, but little did I realize what I was in for.
I was able to sneak a couple waters under my gown in my pockets to tide me through the ceremony. It worked well, very subtle, didn’t draw any attention to myself. Over about an hour it hit me. The stadium lights were beating on me, the heat was rising and the situation was not anywhere near optimal. Then my symptoms, including frequent urination, kicked in. I was out of water, getting hotter, in desperate need of a restroom, and unfortunately surrounded by 10,000 people.
I was nervous. I didn’t want to make a scene and have to leave, especially since my last name starts with G which meant I was in the front half of the graduating class, farthest away from the exits. I knew if I got up to leave, I wasn’t coming back which meant I would never get that moment of throwing my hat up in the air. I had worked so hard for that once in a lifetime opportunity, and I wasn’t going to miss it!
I sat there and toughed it out. Although, when it was time for the recession and people started walking, I immediately abandoned the line and snuck out among some teachers. When I reached the restroom I was in pain, looked paler than a ghost, and was hyperventilating because my body was under so much stress. I gained my composure and was able to hydrate-up at the water fountain for a good five minutes. From there I took the elevator up to the main floor rather than taking the stairs and powered through until I got to the car.
Sitting through that three hour graduation ceremony was one of the toughest situations I’ve been through. I have never allowed Dysautonomia to get in my way before, and I wasn’t about to let it stop me from experiencing my graduation. If you are in high school and getting ready to graduate in the next couple weeks, you should definitely consider talking to your school and figuring out a situation that works. Even though it may be a little embarrassing to be the last first one to graduate. Taking the provisions to be closest to an exit where you can sneak out to the restroom or grab water will make you more comfortable and in turn will make graduation a lot more enjoyable!
-Tyler